Ian spent years on the traditional high-achiever treadmill—PhD track in international security policy, then finance and VC investing, then a venture-backed app startup he eventually sold. By his early 30s he'd had enough of working for others and chasing empty prestige. He quit, moved from New York to rural New Hampshire, and decided to build a business that let him read for an hour every morning and play video games on Saturday mornings—no apologies.
The playbook
4 steps, in the order they took themHired 3 people, sold to 3 friends at cost
Ian knew nothing about offshore staffing but believed in the product-first test: if friends won't pay for it, strangers won't either. He hired a 10-year EA veteran to build a training course, recruited three people in Sri Lanka for the first cohort, and sold discounted contracts to three friends just to see if the service would work in real hands. He made no profit but proved the core loop: train → match → deliver.
- Find someone with deep domain expertise (10+ years) and pay them to build your training curriculum before you have customers
- Run a tiny paid pilot with 3–5 friends at cost or discounted—real money changes behavior, even from friends
- Use the pilot to stress-test onboarding, training, and daily operations before you scale
Tapped out his network, then customers started referring
The unlockAfter the first few friends signed on, Ian hit a wall of anxiety: "What if this only works because people know me?" He kept calling his network until he ran out of warm intros. Then the first unsolicited referral came in—a customer told a founder friend, "You look exhausted, let me hook you up with Oceans." That's when he knew he had a real business. Referrals became the entire growth engine because the service made customers look like heroes to their peers.
- Exhaust your immediate network first—if you can't sell it to people who trust you, the product isn't ready
- Design the service so using it makes the customer visibly better off (less tired, more organized, faster growth)—that's what triggers word of mouth
- Ask early customers explicitly: "Who else do you know dealing with this problem?" and make the intro easy
Scaled to $650K revenue in 10 months, all referral
Ian never bought a Facebook ad or cold-called a stranger. He leaned into the categories where word of mouth is built in: business owners are always hiring, always asking each other "How are you growing? Where do you find people?" Oceans became the answer founders passed around. He obsessed over response time (5-minute email replies), over-delivered on service recovery (comping a month when something broke), and personally onboarded every customer in the first stretch to ensure the experience was so good they'd tell friends.
- Pick a business category where the problem (hiring, lead gen, operations) is a constant conversation topic among your ICP
- Compete on response time and service recovery, not features—being faster and more human than competitors is free differentiation
- Founder-led onboarding for the first 20–50 customers locks in quality and teaches you what great service actually looks like
Hit $15M revenue in year two, hired 30–40/month
The hardest part of scaling wasn't finding customers—it was getting the knowledge out of people's heads and into repeatable processes. When the team was 5–8 people, the person who built the process was doing the process, so nothing broke. At 30–40 hires a month, everything broke. Ian spent months documenting training, onboarding, and matching workflows so new hires could ramp without him. He also hired from non-traditional backgrounds: his first US sales hire ran summer camps and dealt with screaming kids and angry parents—perfect training for handling founder calls.
- Document every process the moment you have to explain it twice—waiting until you're drowning in scale debt is too late
- Hire for operational resilience and people skills over narrow experience; someone who managed chaos in a different domain can learn your domain fast
- Use Google Sheets, Notion, and video recordings (tl;dv) to build a lightweight knowledge base before buying expensive ops software